For partners
Couples therapy that moves the needle.
Evidence-based, Gottman-informed couples work for partners who are stuck in the same argument, rebuilding trust after rupture, or relearning how to be close. Telehealth across California, plus in-person in Walnut Creek with Tina.
Good fit if
- You're looping through the same fight with different content each time
- Intimacy or sex has flattened and neither of you knows how to reopen it
- Trust is shaken — after infidelity, a big lie, a long avoidance
- You're transitioning — marriage, baby, job, move — and you're not landing together
- You're LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, polyamorous, kink-involved — and tired of educating your therapist
- One of you is thinking about leaving and isn't sure
Not a fit if
- Either partner is in active untreated substance use or ongoing affairs (we can refer to a better-fit specialist)
- There's ongoing domestic violence (we refer to DV-specialized trauma and safety resources)
- You're looking for a therapist to adjudicate who's right — couples therapy works when both partners want to understand, not just win
Not sure which column you're in? Book a free consult. If we're not the right fit, we'll help you find someone who is.
What the work looks like
How we actually work together.
We start with a full intake — the story of the relationship, what's happening now, what each of you most wants from the work. Some couples do this together; others start with a brief individual session each so we can hear both sides without interruption.
From there, we use the Gottman Method as a backbone — structured tools for conflict, friendship, and intimacy based on 40+ years of research on what actually predicts relationship outcomes. We integrate Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to work on the emotional patterns underneath the content of your fights, and sex therapy when desire, pleasure, or intimacy is part of what needs attention.
Most couples see meaningful shifts within 8–12 sessions. Deeper work — affair recovery, long-standing avoidance, rebuilding from years of disconnection — often takes longer. We'll check in periodically about whether we're making the progress you came for.
Modalities we draw from
Who on our team does this work
4 therapists who specialize here.
Christina Mathieson
LMFT
Human sexuality, couples work, trauma recovery, and affirming care for individuals navigating relationships, identity, and life transitions.
Michelle Cortez
AMFT
Anxiety, cultural identity, relationship challenges, and the weight of carrying trauma quietly. Relational and culturally responsive at heart.
Jalyse Stewart
AMFT
Trauma-informed therapy for women — especially Black women and BIPOC clients — healing from childhood sexual abuse, complex trauma, and what a lifetime of carrying other people's weight does to the nervous system.
Tina Masoudi
AMFT, APCC
Trauma, anxiety, grief, and relational work — integrative and trauma-informed, with experience serving clients impacted by the justice system and optional Christian counseling for those who want faith to be part of the room.
FAQ
Common questions about couples therapy.
Do you work with same-sex and queer couples?
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Yes, affirmingly. The work follows the same evidence-based frameworks as any couples therapy; you won't need to explain your relationship structure, educate us about your identity, or translate your life for the therapist.
What if my partner won't come?
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You can still do meaningful relationship work in individual therapy. Many clients start there — shifting their own patterns, communicating more clearly — and often the partner joins later. Sometimes the work is about deciding whether to stay.
Do you work with non-monogamous and polyamorous partners?
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Yes. Our approach is non-monogamy-affirming and kink-affirming. We work with structure, communication, and attachment across any configuration you're practicing — including ethical non-monogamy (ENM), which Michelle Cortez particularly specializes in.
How many sessions before we see results?
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Most couples notice meaningful shifts within 8–12 sessions. Some patterns — especially affair recovery and deep avoidance — take longer. You should feel something moving within the first few sessions; if not, we'll revisit approach.
Who on the team does couples therapy?
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Christina Mathieson (LMFT, Gottman Method Level 2) leads couples work. Michelle Cortez (AMFT, ENM-experienced) also works with couples using Gottman, narrative, and functional family therapy approaches.
References & further reading
- Gottman Method — overview of four decades of research — The Gottman Institute
- International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy — ICEEFT
- APA — Marriage and relationships research — American Psychological Association
Last clinically reviewed: April 18, 2026 by Christina Mathieson, LMFT #115093.
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